Thursday, April 07, 2005

How could someone?

Who has not heard about what Amisha did with her parents (her dad, to be precise)? She took him to court, on a charge of 'mismanagement' of her funds. Now how ridiculous is that?? I mean, come to think about it, all what her parents did for her all through her life, was dumped in a matter of few days. I strongly believe that family matters should remain within the 4 walls of your house (it's ok if walls have ears-diwaron ke bhi kaan hote hain:). If you think that the legal system would be an answer to all your problems - you need to go to a psychiatrist first!

Now why did Amisha do, what she did? Why did she disown her parents (I thought it was always the other way around – but oh well, you learn new things everyday) and broke all bonds with them? Well, kahani mein twist tha - dil ka maamlaa tha. She thought that burning her house would be a better choice than burning her heart. She has now publicly made it clear that her lover Vikram Bhatt was the reason behind it. Apparently her parents disliked her involvement with the film director and got vicious (??) with her. And that's when she decided to give them an answer, and broke the drama in public.

I really think what she did was very wrong. I just cannot stand her anymore (oh, not to mention, she got blonde a few months back:)

25 Comments:

  • At April 07, 2005 10:14 PM, Blogger Tarun said…

    bhaiyaa pyar jo na karaye wo kam.....that's very true but for some of these filmwalas family or parents are just like another client......

     
  • At April 08, 2005 8:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well, I would say you live in a world where everything is goody goody... Who knows what her parents did to her that she had to come out in public.. no kid ever wants to do that.. but then there are circumstances that leave themt o behave like that.If her parents didnt like Vikram Bhatt, it is their problem. She is a mature individual and can make her choices, whether right or wrong!! Personally, her decision just shows that she was strong enough to tell her family that she loved this guy and fight for it... I respect her for her decision.. also we are no one to comment on their life as we aren't in the same shoes...

    Sarika

     
  • At April 08, 2005 1:01 PM, Blogger mannat said…

    Tarun - true. You just sit and wonder how this whole industry really works.
    Sarika -I don't think I agree with what you are saying. I do understand that there could be differences with the parents for whatever reasons - but taking them to the court?? Now come on, I can't even imagine someone doing this. I could understand that her parents might be irrational or something. I have also heard people fighting with their parents, etc. But NO taking your parents to the court to give an answer to them is just beyond my comprehension. Her decision definitely does not show that she is a strong girl. It infact shows that she is selfish & dumb! And yes, it is hard to understand what a person is going through in his or her personal life unless you are in the same shoes. But again, no matter how bad the circumstances get, I just don't think there could be ANY reason good enough to take your parents to court.
    Poonam, with your due permission, I will use the line on which you own a copyright;), "soch soch ki baat hai":) Right?

     
  • At April 08, 2005 4:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I really don't know how she is STILL in the industry. Come on the girl can't act.

    Now I didn't know that her bf Vik Bhatt was the reason behind this whole fiasco. I don't know what to think about it. I def agree that it wasn't the right reason for causing badnaami to her parents. If her parents were mismanaging her funds there are other ways to go around it....but that wasn't even the case and it was only bcuz they were against her bf..then that's just wrong.

    You know after watching Aap Mujhe Aache Lagne Lage when that they came out...i have HATED Amisha Patel. She cannot cry worth anything!!!!!!

     
  • At April 09, 2005 11:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I agree with Mannat and strongly disagree with Sarika on the aspect of dragging parents to court.
    No matter what was the reason, for her, either that guy or money was more important than her parents.
    That silly girl's parents raised her and what does she have to return - law suit... Whatever the circumstances, parents spend theor lives and do numerous sacrifices that are easy to ignore if one is selfish enough and she has done the same.

    I also strongly agree with Poonam that Amisha is a BAD actor - I don't know where did the Roshan family find this disgusting fox Amisha.

     
  • At April 10, 2005 9:31 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    just read your reply to Sarika.

    Agree with your 100% Mannat. How bad could it have been for Amisha??? THAT bad to take her parents to court? Causing a harm in not only her own reputation but the reputation of her parents over.. a bf who isn't part of your family???? The bf might leave u..then what??

    That is ridiculous.

    You have my permission to use my copyright Mannat. :P

     
  • At April 11, 2005 8:33 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    It is a matter of apni apni soch...

    I think the issue that we are addressing is how can someone take their parents to court( be it amisha or anyone else).

    Trust me, there are situations that can get so bad that one has no choice left. I have a friend ( a girl) whose Mom took her to court when she was 20, because her mom thought that her daughter is only wanting her money, which was not true at all...The mom filed several complaints against her 20 yr old daughter and finally the poor girl was left with no choice but to file a harrasment case against her mother, when she was 24. She tolerated the mother for over 10 years before taking that step. Can you imagine the plight of the girl, who had to got hrough the torture for so many years and then go to the court.... Its not easy... but sometimes, one is left with no options...and I dont blame Amisha for taking that action.

    Again, she is not selfish and dumb as you are saying... because you are not in her shoes... we dont even know what she went through and how things turned for her...

    Mohan- if the silly girls parents raised her, it was their choice.. she ddint asked to be born and she ddint tell them to raise her. It was their choice.. But to drag the circumstances to such an extent that ur born child needs to take u to court is not taken from the parents. As mature individuals, the parents shold learn to respect the girls choice rather than make her decisions tough.

    Having said all that, I must clarify that I love my parents too much and I have immense respect for them . I am also grateful to my parents to have raised me in an open environment..which makes me think how bad situations can get for the other party involved to have taken such an action!

    Sarika

     
  • At April 11, 2005 9:59 AM, Blogger mannat said…

    Poonam, you are right. This girl doesn't even know how to act & she thinks of herself as the best actress in the bollywood industry. Upar se she also thinks that she is one 'beauty queen'. She looked HORRIBLE when she turned blonde.
    Mohan...agree with you cent percent. I am not sure what the Roshan's saw in her that they gave her a break. I can't even bear her. Kinda liked her in Gadar, but that was it. Every movie she came in after that was just pathetic.
    Sarika, once again - I do not agree with you. The legal system was not made to win battles against your parents. I am sorry what happened with your friend. But that might be one exceptional case. I can't even imagine that any mother could be like the one you are telling me. But I am sure the world is full of weird kind of people.
    And once again, I know I am not in Amisha's shoes (and I thank God for that), but no matter what situation I am in, I could never ever take such a bold step against my parents. You might be right in your thinking - but I just cannot find any logical reason for her actions.

     
  • At April 11, 2005 11:02 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mannat- Yaah, even i cant think of doing the same... but then.. I know it that my friends case is not an exceptional one.. If you go to the woman organisations anywhere... You will hear such cases and I know of them because I worked for a woman organisation earlier.It's not that daughters get happiness by taking legal action... but sometimes they are just bound to.. as thats the best way to keep parents under control. Unfortunately, these cases do not coem into light but they are a part of our society and we should all coem out of the pond and start accepting the hard realities, however disgusting they may sound.. Amisha is just one of the eye-openers.

    Sarika

     
  • At April 11, 2005 3:41 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    its happened a lot in hollywood.

    Macaulay Culkin did it to his parents.

    Lindsay Lohan i think just recently did it with her parents.

    I don't agree with it. But these are also examples.

     
  • At April 11, 2005 4:08 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    More Examples in Bollywood :

    Decades ago Nutan took her mother Shobhana Samarth to court over the alleged mismanagement of her funds and property.

    Sridevi too went to court about property disputes with her sister.

    Sarika disowned from her mom for money matters.

    It happens everywhere poonam.. just that we filter the information we want to keep in our heads!

    Sarika

     
  • At April 11, 2005 11:28 PM, Blogger Jon Doe said…

    Very interesting...

     
  • At April 12, 2005 7:20 AM, Blogger mannat said…

    Sarika...once again, I could never think that a person could get so frustrated that he/she undertakes such a drastic step against the parents. But, I guess your thinking is different about this issue. I cannot think this way-no matter what.
    Poonam, yeah I heard about these cases in Hollywood. Also, in Bollywood similar cases came into light. I am sure if it happens in the filmi duniya, it must be happening in the real world also. But again, I don't think it is right under any circumstances.

    Ankur, yeah, it is interesting and it makes you wonder where this world is leading us.

     
  • At April 12, 2005 8:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mismanagement by parents. Hmm, not sure. Anyways, I think its all about money. Which makes or breaks the world. :)

    Ab patha nahi, what amisha claims is right or wrong.

     
  • At April 12, 2005 8:15 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Absolutely... It makes us wonder as to what's happening to the world we have been told about since the childhood...

    Mannat- Its just a matter of difference of opinion.I know what u mean and I am sure you know what I mean... when I was a kid I couldnt think that some child could go to such extents.. but then while working at the woman's organizations, one realises that ther are 1000's of things happening around which we are unaware of.. All this does happen in the REAL world!

    Sarika

     
  • At April 12, 2005 2:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Don't know why I'm always the last one to post on your blog!! :P

    Even i don't like amisha... and after that blonde look.. she looks more like lalita pawar :P

    All these issues.. have single root cause.. MONEY..!!! Without concept of money... world would had been a lot better place to live..

    but that's impossible right? So, yeh sab to chalta rahega!! Jab tak paisa hai, uske peeche bhaagne wale log to mil hi jayenge!!

     
  • At April 12, 2005 8:07 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i have always liked Lalita Pawar :P

    That's an insult to her when u say that Amisha looks like Lalita Pawar :P

     
  • At April 13, 2005 12:36 AM, Blogger Deepak Jeswal said…

    Though Sarika is right that we cannot really comment on their life as we arent in the same shoes, but what has come out is real bad! I dont think there can be any reason strong enough ever to drag one's own parents to the court! I also strongly believe that no parent can think this bad of a child! I disagree with Sarika on the point that 'her decision shows she is strong enough...' - sorry! But if u r not happy with ur parents, the least u can do is keep the matters within the four walls and not drag them to the court or media. To me her decision only shows that she is a selfish and petty individual. The very fact that they gave her birth, raised her, and allowed her to enter the industry (there were reports earlier on how 'supportive' her parents were on this front post Gadar) from which she has gained so much, is reason enough for anyone to hv forever gratitude towards the parents.

    Mannat, you are right - how could she?

     
  • At April 13, 2005 8:38 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Poonam, as an actress.. lalita pawar was cool...

    i'm just comparing amisha's looks with that of lalita!!

     
  • At April 13, 2005 10:11 AM, Blogger mannat said…

    Govind - yeah, money could really ruin relationships. This is the power of money.
    What Amisha did was wrong - absolutely wrong!
    Sarika- I agree that experiences in life really change the way you think. I am not saying how you think is wrong. All I am saying is, that I could never think this way! Just a difference in opinions, I guess.
    Manpreet...tum tou ant mein hi aate ho...You know those coming in the end always get more attention...so there you go. And yes, money is the cause of all this-it's sad, but it's also the proven fact of life:) The world couldn't even work without the concept of money---maybe in our next lives, we are born into a perfect world:)
    Amisha looks like Lalita Pawar...LOL.
    Poonam, yeah, even I liked her---she was a great actress.
    Deepak...you are absolutely right. It's hard to believe that she took such a step against her parents...I mean, c'mon, they are her parents...doesn't that mean anything to her?
    Manpreet...yeah...looks wise, can't say much!

     
  • At April 14, 2005 9:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Time to update blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     
  • At April 14, 2005 10:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i second that!!!!

     
  • At April 14, 2005 3:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    And, I third that

     
  • At April 14, 2005 4:46 PM, Blogger mannat said…

    Tanya & Manpreet...pehle I was bz with reading the secret post that Manpreet posted...time hi nahi mila update karne ka..
    Then came in Ms. Poonam's prank...
    Abh itni hulchul main main kahaan kuch post kar sakti thi...
    Anyways...I am off for 3 days now...so will have ample of time to update my blog:)

     
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